DadsNet

The online network for dads
It is currently Thu Sep 09, 2010 7:15 am

All times are UTC




Post new topic Reply to topic  [ 10 posts ] 
Author Message
 Post subject: Reading?
PostPosted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 10:03 pm 
Offline

Joined: Thu Jan 01, 2009 1:45 pm
Posts: 15
We have a dilemma (a pleasant one perhaps).

Our youngest appears to love books (we have read books/pictures to him from about 3 months). Now at 2 and 3 months he is getting pretty confident with letters and says "that says" whilst pointing to words. We get him to recognise the letters and say what they are.
This leads to encouraging him to sound the letters and speak the words (all in a no pressure play type of way and we stop as soon as he looks bored - normally 5-10 words).

He is at the stage where he can read "wood, car, train, shoe" type of words.

Our dilemma.
With a couple of years before school - I am guessing he will be reading pretty well by then. My fear is that being in a class with children who aren't yet reading (I know that sounds bad....sorry :roll: ) could cause some boredom probs for him. My Mother in Law was berated by the teacher when she delivered my wife to school already confidently reading.

Do you discourage him from reading - don't think I would be able to as he seems to be enjoying it lots.
Any thoughts?


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
 Post subject: Re: Reading?
PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:31 pm 
Offline
Site Admin

Joined: Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:50 pm
Posts: 380
Location: Surrey
Not an expert, but I think that's ace and should be encouraged.

Good teachers should be able to cope with children of different abilities within the same class - offering more varied work for kids who are more able. It's the teacher that's at fault in your wife's case, I think, not your mother-in-law!


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
 Post subject: Re: Reading?
PostPosted: Sat Jan 24, 2009 3:55 pm 
Offline
Founding Father
User avatar

Joined: Mon Mar 31, 2008 8:41 am
Posts: 93
Location: Nuneaton
Alice was the same

She's 2 years 9 months now and has more books than I do (It's a lot!)

Definitely don't discourage. It'll help his communication skills no end and as Andy said good teachers will deal with it anyway.

Teaching methods are also completely different from when your wife went to school and agree this highlights the poor skills of the teacher in question

Reading books is such a big part of Alice's life i couldn't bear to think of discouraging her in any way

_________________
There's no place like 127.0.0.1


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
 Post subject: Re: Reading?
PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 9:16 pm 
Offline
Founding Father

Joined: Wed Jun 04, 2008 10:22 am
Posts: 72
Andy wrote:
Good teachers should be able to cope with children of different abilities within the same class - offering more varied work for kids who are more able. It's the teacher that's at fault in your wife's case, I think, not your mother-in-law!


At fault perhaps, but I don't think it's uncommon. Ultimately if you have a class of mixed abilities and a limited amount of time to prepare your teaching you're always going to shoot towards the low end of the middle of your ability range, I think - on grounds that those who are more able will not take up your time in finding it dull, but those who are less able will demand more of your time and attention. Even pitching right in the middle of the ability range would seem to me to be dangerous in terms of the amount of time you'll need versus what you'll have.

I was in much the same position as your son, Mikey - one of Mum's favourite stories is the time that I (at six years old) told the teacher that no, I wouldn't be learning to tell the time because I already knew how to tell the time - and, in fact, I could tell it on a 24-hour clock. Yes, I was a bit of a precocious brat. ;-) It didn't do me any lasting harm though - yes I did find primary school boring, by and large, but I read a lot outside of school and eventually the curriculum started throwing things in that I didn't find so easy!


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
 Post subject: Re: Reading?
PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 9:02 pm 
Offline

Joined: Wed Feb 03, 2010 8:55 pm
Posts: 1
Absolutely not! Don't discourage him. I have just started reading to my 1 year old this year and, at first he was off and playing while I read the stories but after a couple of weeks he has actually started going for the book, indicating that he wants a story. I can't wait for him to be able to read with me.

Being a dad? Best job in the world!


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
 Post subject: Re: Reading?
PostPosted: Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:15 am 
Offline

Joined: Thu Jan 01, 2009 1:45 pm
Posts: 15
And and update,
Obviously we didn't discourage him - and now he is happily reading the letters and wanting to (and quite successfully) form the sounds of the words. Books are one of the many things he is into - Lego is the other one :shock:


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
 Post subject: Re: Reading?
PostPosted: Tue Feb 09, 2010 4:10 pm 
Offline
Founding Father

Joined: Wed Jun 04, 2008 10:22 am
Posts: 72
mikey9 wrote:
And and update,
Obviously we didn't discourage him - and now he is happily reading the letters and wanting to (and quite successfully) form the sounds of the words. Books are one of the many things he is into - Lego is the other one :shock:


Awesome! Lego is just unending fun.


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
 Post subject: Re: Reading?
PostPosted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 10:25 pm 
Offline

Joined: Sun Jun 07, 2009 2:19 pm
Posts: 90
My little boy is 2 and a bit and he is starting to recognize words when we read books,it just came really suddenly the love of books with him-now he's got to be read a book at bedtime,it's really nice.. :D :D


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
 Post subject: Re: Reading?
PostPosted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 1:26 pm 
Offline

Joined: Mon Dec 14, 2009 5:52 pm
Posts: 16
Whatever you do, support and encourage his love of books and words.
My son is nearly 2, and loves having stories read to him. Interestingly, he has a couple of books he particularly likes. He'll say "squash squeeze" if he wants us to read A Squash and a Squeeze to him.

He's just started recognising letters, but I don't think he knows that dog starts with d yet - I'm sure that will come soon.

From my experience when I was younger, not being challenged enough in school can be a problem. I was reading well before I went to school, as I had an older sister who I would read with. I would sometimes get bored in reading and English, but I would rather that than have been at a lower ability.

You can always give him more difficult books at home to keep his interest up.


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
 Post subject: Re: Reading?
PostPosted: Wed Mar 31, 2010 8:53 pm 
Offline
Site Admin

Joined: Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:50 pm
Posts: 380
Location: Surrey
These stories are ace. My five year-old has been sounding-out words for a few months now, and it's a joy to sit with him while he reads his way through a book. He can spot a few common words and sight read them, and he's just started getting slowly to the end of a sentence and then reading it again, with aplomb. He's really enjoying it, and my goodness it feels good :)


Top
 Profile E-mail  
 
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic Reply to topic  [ 10 posts ] 

All times are UTC


Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 1 guest


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  
cron
Powered by phpBB © 2000, 2002, 2005, 2007 phpBB Group  
Design By Poker Bandits